Numerous dudes, having said that, desire to slide into my apartment and slip into me like they slide into my DMs — then bounce. Insult is included with offence if they request to be “discreet” about the thing that is whole. It usually goes some variation of:
“I respect you babe but let’s keep it discreet”
“That’s cool hun but i prefer discernment, I’m personal once you learn the things I suggest haha”
“I don’t head that you’re trans and all but could we take action discreetly tho?”
No. Just — stop. Fulfilling a trans woman is not some operation that is clandestine.
“I know now me. that I deserve to walk in the sunlight with a guy whom really loves”
I’ve been told we meet that i’m very feminine and pass as female (a problematic privilege), but that doesn’t seem to reassure these straight dudes that everything will be OK when. (more…)