saltandredpepper
FallenAngelina
Active user
That is poly married man issue number 1. FAR above some other problem, poly married guys encounter this. We usually view it right right here regarding the forum and it is seen by me everywhere in my own poly groups. You will find quite few threads here about this.
As a whole, married women can be catnip to males. Married males are kryptonite to ladies. There are numerous cause of both, but that is the lay of this poly-couple land.
hyperskeptic
Fellow member
Yep, here is the problem with wanting to be non-monogamous in a monogamous tradition. I’ve no recommendations to provide, only commiseration.
As much as I can easily see, there isn’t any way to this issue. Assuming your lady wouldn’t be prepared to return to monogamy, you are in for the long haul of loneliness and frustration.
Ravenscroft
Banned
What you should be doing is dating around. Escape, have some fun, become familiar with some ladies, go out, have some fun. (Yah, there is a style there.)
What you are doing sounds similar to mate shopping: experiencing the requirement to find an applicant who is able to hopefully fill the positioning ASAP.
Amy is regarded as the best dating partners: gorgeous, powerful, bright, funny. Additionally totaly gay. As soon as we head out, almost all of the dudes (& a number of the girls ) envy me personally. It will not “go someplace” for the reason that it’s maybe perhaps maybe NOT the point AFTER ALL.
IME, whenever I’m present in exactly the same social group hanging down with various ladies, the message appears to get across fine that i am not monogamous. Ladies who are available to this do certainly strike a conversation up.
(i like a number of music. There is a club having a sound that is incredible, & Industrial Madness any Wednesday night. We went nearly every alone if needs be week. In no time, the employees knew me personally by title, & would usually provide me concern on a night that is busy this REALLY impressed a number of my companions. (more…)